On Sunday, I went to an art opening at A&E Gallery. In this show, I knew some of the artists, and I took the time to talk to them about their work and their process. My simple question, “Tell me about your art,” usually leads to a long, fascinating story. I learn a great deal about the artist and what drives their work.
This piece drew my attention. I’ve known the artist, Cathy Mills, for many years. We were Writing Project teachers together, but we had fallen out of touch. When she told me about this piece, she talked about how it had started out as a tree and then became these heavenly women. After others stepped away, she said, “Can I tell you what is really going on in this piece? I lost my son a year ago.” She proceeded to tell me how the painting was healing to her. She feels at peace now. She knows her son is at peace. Teary-eyed, I asked if I could photograph the picture and write a poem about it. I sent her the poem by email, and she approved its publication here hoping it may help someone else who is struggling with grief.
The Story
The flames ignite in her spine
growing to yellow gold. She can feel
her bones, every sinew, every nerve hot,
like her pulse, raging and fierce.She remembers the call at 2 AM.
She hears the nurse’s voice,
“We have your son here.”
She knew he was gone.With all the time she had, every arrest,
every hospital stay, every cry,
nothing could have saved him
from the fire. Now, peace risesin blue angels from the roots
of her mothering. These women announce
Joy, pronounce Glory.
Tell her that he is well.
All will be well.








your poem and Cathi’s image are powerful reminders of the potential of the human spirit to find peace and hope even in times of unfathomable sadness.
My gosh…how powerful…I see the hope, even in her sadness. My mom painted a piece after Dad died that perhaps I will try to put to words. Your poem is lovely, too, capturing the terror, the grief, and the hope. Thanks.
Amazing…and I know a person who would really appreciate your story poem and this amazing painting. You are such a terrific writer of poetry. I am envious….xo
What a compliment! I love poetry and am passionate about teaching and writing. Thanks for your encouragement.
Beautiful gifts of hope and comfort from two artists. Thank you.
Thank you. It sounds like her story is similar to my own brother’s tale. I’ll share this piece with my parents.